"You were there?" Yeah, that's certainly worse. She can definitely understand how he might have gotten upset over something like that.

Moana shakes her head a little. "Okay, but...none of those guys are you. Your past self, his future self...even any possible future self that might enjoy being that way. Those are different versions of you, but not this version of you. You are your own person, and can make your own choices. You can take control of this life and make it your own."